What’s In Your Blind Spot?

      It was 5:15  am. I awoke to the sound of my husband yelling up the stairs. “My car’s blocked and I need to leave now.”  I raced for the keys, jumped in my daughter’s car and without adjusting the seat or mirrors, began the...

What Do You Want?

When I ask this BIG QUESTION about relationships most people tell me what they don’t want.   “I don’t want someone who lies or cheats. I don’t want someone who doesn’t communicate. I don’t want someone who’s lazy.” When I ask what someone wants in a job, they...

Are You Where You’re Supposed to Be?

  It doesn’t matter where you are, as long as where you are, you’re eking out all you can.   That sounds nice as long as you’re in some cushy place with down pillows, 800 thread count sheets or lounging in the beauty and serenity of the ocean breeze with a...

Diluting the Negative with the Positive

di·lu·tion  (dī-lo͞o′shən, dĭ-)  n. The process of making weaker or less concentrated.      The other day I was buying dog shampoo and noticed the ones I liked best were concentrated. They suggested a dilution ratio of 3: 1. Three parts water to one part...